OT: What turns you off
On December 10, 2008 at 12:08 PM Pacific Time, Double_Ayy wrote:
1. "I-know-that's-right" Sista dolls (complete with neck rolling ability and finger snapping action)2. "I only shop at Macy's and Lord 'n Taylor's..." but they only make Aldi's money.
3. Can call every woman they meet/know the dreaded "B" word, but the minute they hear you just say it out loud they break into a karate stance.
4. Got all the answers to every problem you've ever faced in life but can't tell their azz from a hole in the ground.
5. Holier than thou... but the minute the leave church service they cuss like Popeye, the sailor man.
Well damn you just peeped my whole card Double_Ayy!! 
Naw just kidding I might be 1 or 2 or 3 out of the 5!!!!!!!!! LMAO!
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Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome. ~Booker T. Washington~
Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome. ~Booker T. Washington~
My turn-off(s) in a man:
A controlling spirit
A controlling spirit
A controlling spirit (o.k., the CD keeps skipping, dammit!)
Jealous hearted
One who does not praise his partner's accomplishments
One who just will NOT let go of the apron springs or the breast (his momma's, not mine!)
One who is controlled by his momma/sisters, et al.
a leach
broke arse
no dayum car! (what?!)
not clean
no romance or romantic tendencies
The list could go on...but, I digress...
DD
A controlling spirit
A controlling spirit
A controlling spirit (o.k., the CD keeps skipping, dammit!)
Jealous hearted
One who does not praise his partner's accomplishments
One who just will NOT let go of the apron springs or the breast (his momma's, not mine!)
One who is controlled by his momma/sisters, et al.
a leach
broke arse
no dayum car! (what?!)
not clean
no romance or romantic tendencies
The list could go on...but, I digress...
DD
I choose to love myself, live life to the fullest, and encourage others to liberate themselves!
Yall done made my blood pressure go up just reading this.
It is so sad that we have to go through this......male and females alike.
Here is my 2 cents.
First and foremost a man that does not have a relationship with Christ. Why? If a man love Christ with all of his heart he has the ability to love me. (he has something to work with)
I do not like legalistic, phariseeic traditional see only black and white, no vision, no sense of purpose or direction. Hung up on hang ups, lying to himself first kinda man.
I do not like men who are selfish, self centered, manipulative and controlling. A man with absolutely no vision. No relationship with his children. had too many jobs because he has issues.
Unclean in his physical appearance and in his heart.
Pretty much everything else is workable and doable.
But if God ain't there I aint there.
holla
It is so sad that we have to go through this......male and females alike.
Here is my 2 cents.
First and foremost a man that does not have a relationship with Christ. Why? If a man love Christ with all of his heart he has the ability to love me. (he has something to work with)
I do not like legalistic, phariseeic traditional see only black and white, no vision, no sense of purpose or direction. Hung up on hang ups, lying to himself first kinda man.
I do not like men who are selfish, self centered, manipulative and controlling. A man with absolutely no vision. No relationship with his children. had too many jobs because he has issues.
Unclean in his physical appearance and in his heart.
Pretty much everything else is workable and doable.
But if God ain't there I aint there.
holla
On December 10, 2008 at 4:17 PM Pacific Time, Pastor di wrote:
Yall done made my blood pressure go up just reading this.It is so sad that we have to go through this......male and females alike.
Here is my 2 cents.
First and foremost a man that does not have a relationship with Christ. Why? If a man love Christ with all of his heart he has the ability to love me. (he has something to work with)
I do not like legalistic, phariseeic traditional see only black and white, no vision, no sense of purpose or direction. Hung up on hang ups, lying to himself first kinda man.
I do not like men who are selfish, self centered, manipulative and controlling. A man with absolutely no vision. No relationship with his children. had too many jobs because he has issues.
Unclean in his physical appearance and in his heart.
Pretty much everything else is workable and doable.
But if God ain't there I aint there.
holla
I love your responses Pastor Di and oh so true!! http://www.myspace.com/essnce04
Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome. ~Booker T. Washington~
Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome. ~Booker T. Washington~
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